I met my wife Kate Harding in Chicago in 2006 and she is ultimately the reason I moved to Chicago.
She's written extensively on rape culture and sexual assault, has more degrees than I do, could probably make a very comfortable wage writing content marketing for tech, but has her heart set on opening a bookstore.
You can still buy her book "Asking For It" online from Bookshop.org, and don't forget to browse the group of other books she has authored or had a hand in authoring or editing.